I thought maybe it comes in handy, if I would give you some examples. I’ll give you just three.
I said that you can only long for something you already know. Well, that is the case, but there are some nuances in that process. That’s why I give you these three examples.
First one. I guess you all know Simon Cowell. Well, he has this jobby as the main judge for these so called Talent Shows*. I think he might make some money with that jobby and I think he got himself quite a nice car after a long period of working in that jobby. But, since this car might also gotten quite old, denty and rusty – he’s got this jobby already for ááááááges – he might have started longing for a new car. And while at it, he might have thought, while longing for a new car: “Let me get a red Ferrari.” Let’s say he did and after a while he got himself this red Ferrari. (The Law of Attraction, which is Gravity, always gives you what you long for.) But… this red Ferrari is dead, as I explainad to you on this site. That red thingy is not only dead when he got it, but it was already dead in his mind before he got it, while he was longing for it. Since longings are dead all the time. Anyway.
* I watch these talent shows quite a lot. I like them.
Second example. But what if someone is longing for something that is alive? Let’s say a flower or something. Well, then he/she gets this flower (by this law of attraction, which is gravity), but… is this flower the same, literally, as the one he/she longed for. No-o-hooo, because this flower grew meanwhile somewhat. It’s a living ‘thing’, what? So, in case of living ‘things’ the final situation is different. Different compared to a Ferrari or other dead thing. That’s why I give you the
Third example. And I think that one is the most important. It’s the longing for a love-partner, which is also a living ‘thing’. (Nowedays you can also get dead love-partners, robots, but I’m not talking about that.) Well, you could get such a partner, a living love-partner, even quite exactly like you longed for him/her, but, as the flower*, this partner is alive and thus is changing all the time. And I think this changing is the main reason for devorce. Well… if you don’t have enough attention for this changing and you are not aware of those changes. Maybe you should introduce yourself to your partner every morning after waking up. To get yourself focused on those changes. :)) But don’t get used to that intruducing either. (Sigh.)
Have a good night sleep and a nice wakeywakey,
Ronald.
* Well, most flowers we get, by ourselves, don’t live that long… 🙁