So, there are two ways of living: dead life and real life.
Dead life is chasing the satisfaction of your longings, which can only bring you things you already knew.
And while you are longing for these things you already knew, the Law of Attraction, wich is Gravity, kicks in, because it always works. And then you get what you longed for, these things you already knew. So you are a victim of the Law of Attraction, a victim of Gravity, which always attracts what’s alike what’s in your mind. And your longings are in/from your mind, created in your mind.
All this leads to a dead-end-street, (which is the real Simulation), because you can only long for something you already knew, and get it, which are things that are old, which are things that are dead. So living by your longings only brings you dead things, it brings you death, it leads to your death.
Real life is when you stop longing and live in the now, using your intuition, living spontaneously, following your impulses, without pre-fabricating things in your mind before that.
Real life is living in NIRVANA. (Nirvana means ‘being free from longings; Buddha already said that.)
Longings and spontaneity are eachothers opposite.
We are doomed, if we keep on satisfying our longings, because it leads to death. We are trapped in gravity. Trapped in ‘the Law of Attraction’. Trapped in our longings.
In shorter than short:
You can live by your longings or you can live spontaneously. It’s up to you.
Ronald.